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Letters received during the week of 2 November 2003

Usquequo...

HOW SOON WILL YOU BE moving ECUSA into the category of 'Not in Communion?'

Also, how soon will you have up a list of the bishops who participated against Scripture, Tradition AND Reason in laying hands on Mr. Robinson.

Gary Boyd
Grace Church
Georgetown, Texas, USA
g.dboyd@verizon.net
3 November 2003

1) When the Archbishop of Canterbury determines that the Episcopal Church in the USA is out of communion. 2) Never. We don't publish lists of bishops.

'I am enthused'

I AM ENTHUSED BY THE COURAGE of Gene Robinson and the good Christian people of New Hampshire for their bravery and courage and saddened by the homophobic reaction of those who have vitriolically opposed the ordination of this good Christian man. Once upon a time these same people would have condemned those who promoted the idea of a world that was spherical as heretics. Time moves on, and two thousand years of oppression, condemnation and scapegoating of homosexuality is enough.

I grew up in the Church of England as did many of my friends; however, I left when it became obvious that my sexuality was in conflict with the prevailing view of my sexuality at that time. How unfortunate for the Church that so many valuable souls have been lost to it by its intransigent and wicked condemnation of God's gay children.

The arguments against homosexuals would not be countenanced if it was a matter of colour or race, so how do you justify inhumanity and injustice on the basis of sexuality? How dare you assume to insult so many wonderful human beings who give so much to life's rich tapestry? Not only do you insult me, but you insult God and the teachings of his son Jesus Christ by your narrow-minded values and obsessive attitudes.

Where is your sense of love and compassion? If the hatred animosity and intolerance displayed in recent weeks is anything to go by, I was right to turn my back on the Church of England aged 16, and your Church is all the poorer for my absence and the absence of my good friends. You should be made aware of the suffering you cause, by your ignorance and lack of faith.

David Frederick Wainwright
Plymouth, Devon, ENGLAND
3 November 2003

'I am proud'

THE FOCAL POINT OF OUR WORSHIP experience as Anglicans / Episcopalians is the Eucharist. If we are truly conscious to this point, then we must never turn away from the fact that the spirit of the Eucharist is being in Communion with everyone. In my heart of hearts, I do not believe that our Lord would segment celebrants or congregants as they partake in His Supper.

As others have stated, I am proud to be in standing with a Church that is inclusive. We are one in Christ.

Timothy O'Kennon
All Saints' Church
Atlanta, Georgia, USA
token30305@yahoo.com
3 November 2003

'I asked God to change me'

I HAVE A HOMOSEXUAL BACKGROUND. I grew to believe the argument 'you were born that way, you can't change'. It felt wrong, but I couldn't change, I tried... I thought the solution must be that it is not wrong, it was my belief that homosexuality is wrong is what needed to change. I got into arguments with the 'fundamentalist bigots', but it wasn't really them I was arguing with. I was arguing with myself.

I went deeper into the lifestyle. Instead of liberation, all I found was that I was getting deeper into bondage. I couldn't control my lust anymore, it controlled me. I found myself doing things which I always said I would never do. But I was free?

I met a Christian girl at work. She had a glow about her. She invited me to church. I had just moved to the country and was lonely, so I said "why not?" (at least I wouldn't be stuck by myself another night). She invited me around for Christmas. Her family had something about them ...a love... a peace. I wanted some of it. I 'became a Christian'. A sense of peace entered my life. But the homosexuality was still there.

I asked God to change me. The homosexuality was still there. I got baptised. The homosexuality was still there. I figured I should change myself. The homosexual feelings got stronger. I tried harder. I failed. The homosexual feelings remained. I gave up. 'God, if you want me to change, you are going to need to change me'. The homosexual feelings disappeared. A new friend sent me a letter saying she was in love with me. We discussed my history. We got married anyway.

Since then, the homosexual feelings still return at times. I have learnt to turn to God when they do, and not rely on my own efforts to overcome them. In the last six years since becoming a Christian, my life has changed. Married, a daughter, acceptance. The greatest thing? A relationship with God, who loves me in all circumstances. Who loved me while I was in the pit, but didn't leave me there.

The Bible is true. Homosexuality is a sin. Those who live in sin reap the rewards... a life of bondage. But there is a God who can lift you out of that. You can't do it yourself, you need a relationship with Him. It is as you grow in that relationship that the chains come off. How do you grow? You fail to live up to the standard, and realise He loves you anyway. And again. And again. You realise that there is nothing you can do to make Him love you more, and nothing you can do that will make Him love you less. Your heart changes. The chains come off.

Richard
Berks, UNITED KINGDOM
being_set_free@yahoo.com
3 November 2003

From a Roman Catholic

I WOULD LIKE TO CONGRATULATE you and your Church for taking the courageous step of consecrating the Right Reverend Gene Robinson as the first OPENLY gay Bishop. I say openly because, let's be real, I think we can agree that the chances that he is the first gay Bishop are very slim. He has shown honesty, sincerely, and faith. Sounds to me like a good bishop!

I am saddened that my Church will not, in my lifetime, do something so honestly. But you and your Church are moving forward with giving ALL of the children of God access, you are proving to be a prophetic Church. Again, congratulations to the Anglican Communion and to the new Bishop Gene Robinson.

Leo Whitlow
Roman Catholic
Portland, Oregon USA
Whitbo2000@yahoo.com
6 November 2003

'No one would ever choose'

I REJOICE IN THE CONSECRATION of Bishop Robinson. Sexual orientation should never be considered in leadership positions in the church. Sexual orientation is as God-given as skin color. No one would ever choose that if it were not given to him / her by God. When one accepts Jesus as Savior and becomes a child of God through faith in Him, is he not accepted by God and assured of eternal life at that moment?

Then God's word is the same for all His children, 'to love the Lord with all your heart, soul, and mind, and to love your neighbor as yourself'. Anything else is between God and his child. I will answer to God for myself and for no one else.

Rusty Callaway
St Thomas Episcopal Church
Columbus, Georgia, USA
rustycal@aol.com
5 November 2003

No, we weren't familiar with Bishop Laney.

ARE YOU FAMILIAR WITH THE HISTORIC WORK of Bishop Benjamin Laney in promoting church tolerance?

"Benjamin Laney, Five Sermons, Preached before His Majesty at Whitehall. Published Severally by Command. And Now Printed together, tending all to give Satisfaction in Certain Points to such who have thereupon endeavoured to unsettle the State and Government of the Church. By the Right Reverend Father in God, B. Lord Bishop of Ely." Benjamin Laney (1591 - 1675) was a Bishop who tolerated Nonconformists. The five Sermons collected in this volume were described by Canon Overton as 'especially worthy of notice as giving a complete compendium of church teaching as applied to the particular errors of the times, showing a firm grasp and bold elucidation of church principles'.

Only under Bishop Benjamin Laney's personal direction as Vice-Chancellor at Cambridge were Jews able to study at Cambridge University during the Reformation. Benjamin Laney simply classified them as 'Nonconformists,' like himself, instead of being labeled 'hated Jews.'

I think this is an important story of historic church tolerance toward Jews and others at a very troubled time in history that needs to be publicly retold today.

One way to do this would be for a modern International Jewish (or other) organization to help endow a new Chair of Tolerance and Nonconformist Studies at Cambridge as a PR move and to allow the modern Laneys to memorialize and republish Bishop Benjamin Laney's essentially unique early history of tolerance toward Jews in Reformation England.

More importantly, this unique history also implies that both King Charles I and II, who actively endowed and befriended Bishop Benjamin Laney, were also tolerant toward Jews and other Nonconformists. That is the real story.

What if the Royal family today decided to show this same kind of open public commitment to tolerance and to nonconformists? That would be a true tonic for our troubled modern world in which intolerance now runs rampant again.

Dr. Melvin Laney
Nonconformist
Washington, DC, USA
MLA@wizard.net
4 November 2003

John, Gene, Simon, Garfunkel

THERE HAVE BEEN NO DOUBT A NUMBER of Bishops 'Robinson' in the Anglican Communion. Maybe the name engenders controversy!

Some years ago I re-read 'Honest to God', which when published gave Bp John Robinson instant fame. Thirty years after it was written I was astonished by how ordinary it all seemed! I remember, too, being rather taken with his book 'The Human Face of God', which must have caused some to wince at the thought of Jesus actually being considered to be a sexual being. Anything less, Robinson correctly stresses, would be heresy.

The latest Bishop Robinson seems most unlike his controversial namesake with an eirenic, gentle, private disposition. I have written recently to him to assure him that not all Australian Anglicans are secessionists. I like many of my sisters and brothers give thanks that Gene Robinson has stood firm against bitterness, hatred and manipulation and proclaims the inclusive church as a true vision of the Church of God.

I hope too, that I will look back in thirty years time and find that the controversy of Gene Robinson is as passé as that of John was.

And if Simon and Garfunkel can forgive me one awful pun. 'God bless you both, Bishops Robinson, Jesus loves more than you can know'.

Stephen Clark
All Hallows on the Hill, and St John's in the Valley, Coromandel Valle
Blackwood, SOUTH AUSTRALIA
stephenclark@iprimus.com.au
4 November 2003

From South Africa

I WISH TO REPORT ON THE EFFECTS that Gene Robinson’s consecration has had on South African Christian Community. In the Cape Times and Cape Review, full reports with photographs of the consecration, was issued in Tuesday 4th November newspapers. Headlines reading “Behind the schism in the Anglican Church over gay bishop”, “Ndungane (Archbishop of Cape Town) breaks ranks with African Anglicans on consecration of gay bishop”, “Historic consecration deepens rift in Anglican Church”.

Letters to Editors of the newspapers, both from Anglicans, non-Anglicans and Christian political parties rejecting the consecration and calling homosexuality an 'abomination'. On the radio, secular radio stations praising the Anglican Church for the consecration and Christian radio stations rejecting the 'Anglicans'' stance on the issue of Homosexuality.

Ordinary Anglicans have been affected. The decision of New Hampshire to consecrate Gene Robinson has been felt by Anglican brothers and sisters in South Africa, both negatively and positively, the former more than the latter.

Today I feel ashamed to call myself a gay Christian, worshipping as an Anglican. If the gay clergy think that they are heroes and saints for the gay Anglicans by disclosing their sexuality and want to force the church to accept them as practising gay clergy, then they should think twice about their calling to a church they are called to serve and obey.

I believe as a mentioned in my previous letter, it is only in God’s time that we will be accepted as gay people. When that time will be, only God knows and it is not for us to say when, like in the Second coming of our Lord, only the Father has set the time.

Some people reading my previous letter and this one might think that I am not gay. But my beliefs are based on this: I respect my Church's tradition for the better of the Communion (worldwide) in sacrificial love, with praise to the Father.

Brothers and sister Anglicans, let us work this issue out as a family in LOVE, sacrificial love, that was poured out on Calvary’s tree. Lord Jesus, Prince of Peace, regard not our sin but the faith of Your Church. Amen

Damian Bellairs
Cape Town, SOUTH AFRICA
5 November 2003

'I simply find the current state of affairs laughable'

IT MAY BE WISHFUL THINKING on your part, but it is unlikely that everything has been said on the recent controversial ordination.

Those who support the ordination of an openly gay bishop are far less frightening than the loud-mouthed bigots whom the Anglican Community already tolerates. Most so called 'fundamentalists' have that combination of absolute certainty and relative stupidity which is much more terrifying than anything Bishop Gene is likely to threaten. A church divided on the gay bishop issue deserves to fall. Whether it does or not is of little significance to the majority of people, Christian or non-Christian.

This is not a hateful letter. I simply find the current state of affairs laughable. I wonder, do you think God takes the matter seriously, or do you think He / She has more important things to bother about? Is He / She even now laughing up His / Her sleeve at so many Anglicans with their knickers in a twist?

One consequence of all this is that there may be calls for the Archbishop of Canterbury to be given more authority. That would probably lead to the situation similar to the Roman Catholic Church, where even more people are forced into covert behaviour and hypocrisy because they realise that what their earthly leaders are telling them to do is sometimes patently stupid (e.g., 'Don't use birth control.')

John Shemilt
Lathom, Ormskirk, Lancashire, UNITED KINGDOM
4 November 2003

'At odds with the Anglicans worldwide'

I AM A LIFELONG EPISCOPALIAN who resents the label of ultraconservative because I oppose the confirmation of a gay bishop. Why would I take this position? Because it puts us at odds with the Anglicans worldwide. I don't pretend to have the answer on who is right or wrong on this issue, but I do know that the management of the church made a decision that is not in my best interest. Contrary to the rhetoric I hear from the liberal or conservative side, I don't believe that they both speak for God on this issue. What I do believe is they all should be called to account by the diocese they serve for putting our church in jeopardy. Perhaps the real question is, have we allowed this elite bureaucracy to become so ingrained that only they know what is in our best interest?

Paul Webster
Tucson, Arizona, USA
4 November 2003


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