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Letters to AO

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Letters from 24 to 30 September 2012

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The bountiful crop of letters we received were all in response to our front-page letter of 23 September 2012.

A renaissance Aunt

1) Is there a need for an Anglican Agony Aunt, an Episcopal Ethicist, or a Dear Miss Maniple?

One would hope for such a service to be rendered, but it is such a wide-ranging field, as opposed to say, Dear Abby. One questioner would ask whether blue is appropriate for Advent, and another would want to know just what is hamartiology.

2) What would you do about a colleague of distinctly muscular Christianity?

Encourage Mr or Ms Muscles to exercise graced free will and choose to be more subtle, so as to attract more people to the Faith...

Or else, just say "Please shut up already!"

Or yet again, if we are both in front of a firing squad for our faith, to ask for a loud rendition of the final verse of "A Mighty Fortress Is Our God".

Context is everything...

Bishop Pierre Whalon
Convocation of Episcopal Churches in Europe (American Episcopal Church, Province II)
Paris, FRANCE
bishop@tec-europe.org
24 September 2012

A learned and scientific Aunt

1) Is there a need for an Anglican Agony Aunt, an Episcopal Ethicist, or a Dear Miss Maniple?

Probably not an outright need, but it would be interesting. Especially if the proposed Episcopal Ethicist responded according to various ethical systems and also considered the findings of recent neuroscience and behavioral ethics.

2) What would you do about a colleague of distinctly muscular Christianity?

There are lots of these folk, not limited to Anglicans and not limited to colleagues. It's harder to avoid the ones who are your own family members. Based on the findings of above-mentioned neuroscience and behavioral ethics, the chances of their changing are almost nil. So, you can remember what St. Francis said: Preach the Gospel always; when necessary use words. In the end, it's our actions that count.

Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est.

Meg Carter
Diocese of California
Oakland, California, USA
24 September 2012

A potential Aunt Bill, but he's engaged

There is a crying need for someone in the Anglican Communion to whom the doubtful and distressed could appeal for sound advice and trustworthy moral guidance. Unfortunately, I am very busy at the moment and couldn't possibly manage it, so the Church will just have to muddle along as usual.

Bill Dilworth
St Stephen's Church
Providence, Rhode Island, USA
billydinpvd@gmail.com
24 September 2012

A thoroughly modern Aunt

On an Anglican Agony Aunt: yes, but it should be of the modern variety where readers can chime in online, because whatever he/she says, some will disagree.

On relentlessly verbal "faithful" colleague, I would silently pray for her because she must be inwardly anxious to have to protest so much.

Jaime Sanders
St. Mary's Church
Woodburn, Oregon, USA
24 September 2012

An impossible-to-find Aunt

Because of the very diversity which characterizes our Communion, I'm not sure that it would even be possible to find an Anglican Auntie. Should she be Anglo-Catholic or Evangelical? Should she be conservative or liberal? Should she be a laywoman or in Holy Orders? How could she possibly have an answer for all the potential questions posed by those occupying the vast spectrum of Anglican experience and opinion?

I would refrain from responding to the colleague, as it could so easily lead to misunderstanding and hurt feelings. I share your reluctance to claim God's manoeuvring in the minutiae of daily life. It is problematic, I think, to say that some Christians benefit from such hovering, divine supervision when other, equally devout, apparently do not. In the face of such mystery, I find the best course is to remain silent.

William Bippus
St. Paul's Church
Marinette, Wisconsin, USA
24 September 2012

Yes for an any sort of Aunt!

It would be fun to have a "Dear Anglican Auntie" to write our questions to.

Patricia White
St. Mary's Church
Northfield, Vermont, USA
26 September 2012

A Trinity of Aunties

1) Is there a need for an Anglican Agony Aunt, an Episcopal Ethicist, or a Dear Miss Maniple?

Yes, and I would recommend that these positions should be held by three different individuals specializing in

(a) etiquette in the pew, coffee hour, office, vestry*; however, I would propose the name Aunt or Auntie Abbess or Aunt or Auntie Anchorite instead of Anglican Agony Aunt;|
(b) moral and ethical issues of a more serious nature to be handled by the Episcopal Ethicist; and
(c) liturgics, prayer book, church history, and theology* to be handled by Miss Maniple.

* Depending on the nature of the question, sacristy issues could be handled by (a) or (c).

2) What would you do about a colleague of distinctly muscular Christianity?

A Facebook commenter with an Evangelical bent was recently citing chapter and verse, and that one should pray without ceasing. I then wrote that I had attended Morning Prayer the day before (Tuesday), Eucharist that day (Wednesday), and would attend Evening Prayer the day following (Thursday). I then suggested that if one is short of time there was always Unapologetically Episcopalian and included the link (http://www.facebook.com/pages/Unapologetically-Episcopalian/122364231114060). I haven’t heard from that commenter since.

I used to live in Texas and had to deal with born-agains all the time. I learned the best way to deal with them is to "out do" them, for which our Anglican three-legged stool of Scripture, Tradition, and Reason is more than ample. Yes, I know it’s not nice to “one up” someone, especially in matters of faith, but these people can be relentless and badgering. Although they quote chapter and verse, they really don’t know as much Scripture as they purport to know.

However, I do have a question: What saintly figure perished whilst walking near Ballachulish? Was it St. Fintan Mundus of Argyle or Alasdair MacDonald? (http://macinnes.org/eilean_munde/eilean_munde.html)

Gwendolyn R. Chambrun
Christ & Saint Stephen's, Manhattan
New York, New York, United States
27 September 2012

Editors note: That saintly figure would be the Reverend Father Alexander Heriot Mackonochie. See http://anglicanhistory.org/england/ahmackonochie/towle1890/16.html

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